I work with a lot of women who are building personal brands, and they’re either a coach or creative or healer or thought leader, and someone who wants to be paid for being themselves and sharing their gifts with the world. They want to be able to show up, speak their message or sell their embodied wisdom and receive abundantly for that. That is what I help the amazing clients that I work with to do.
What I’ve noticed over the years, helping women step into being a leader and actually being paid to be themselves, is that it comes back to self permission, it comes back to giving yourself validation and permission from within.
I think a lot of the time we’re seeking permission or validation from other people. We will wait to follow what we really want to do or wait to take action on something we really want to do or be known for because we don’t feel ready or are waiting for someone to tell us “Hey, this is your time to go ahead.”
A lot of the time I also see women taking free masterclasses, completing multiple certifications and feeling like they need to do a million courses before they can create their own content or before they can attract clients. It’s almost like we feel that validation needs to come from someone else rather than ourselves.
The first step to attract soul aligned clients by being yourself is to give yourself permission to validate that you are worthy and ready.
That is what people want to feel from you. That is what people want to buy into. That is when people want to pay you. A woman in her power is magnetising. When you are in alignment with who you are, when you’re fully expressing yourself, every aspect of your business is benefited.
Everything else flows from that. The confidence, money, impact, clients, all flow from that. But when you get misaligned with who you are, when you’re trying to be someone you’re not or when you try to follow someone elses footprints, or seek a million certifications before you feel ready to show up, that’s when you’re blocking your next level vision. So the very first thing is you need to do is decide that you belong and claim your space in your industry.
The second step is to own your message and allow your message unfiltered and unedited.
Now, in terms of attracting these beautiful clients, a really important thing that I remember shifting into was owning my message and actually allowing my message to just come through me unfiltered and unedited. When I gave myself permission to speak, unapologetically everything shifted for me because my message then was true. My message was aligned because I owned what I had to say. So I want you to think about when you’re attracting these beautiful clients that the most important thing you can do is to own who you are, own your message and to let it flow through you in whatever way it needs to and try not to edit yourself.
What would be different about your message if you just gave yourself permission to be yourself?
What would change in the way that you’re showing up in what you’re selling, what you’re actually creating, what would be different about your message?
If up until this point you have been waiting for someone else’s permission, or perhaps signing up for all these different courses or different freebies from people and absorbing /consuming all this content, something to be mindful of when you’re consuming more than you’re creating is it can really dilute YOUR message. When you’ve been consuming a million other people’s voices, it’s hard to hear your own, it gets blurred. So give myself permission to create more than you consume.
Finally, What do you stand for? Own what you stand for and just as importantly, own what you stand against.
What do you want people to know?
What gets you frustrated in your industry?
Being clear what it is you stand for and what you stand against takes owning your message to a deeper level. What is your bigger mission and how can you step into that and let your community get behind that movement? Know where you are going and invite people to come with you on that journey, knowing that that journey isn’t for everyone and that’s okay.
By implementing these three things your soul-aligned clients will naturally become attracted to you. They will tap into your energy and they will want to be around you. They will follow you around and pay you because your energy is magnetic as it’s aligned with who you really are.
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